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The Uniform:
- [Cashmere Boutique 100% Pure Cashmere Lounge Pajamas Set – $329]
- [Jet&Bo 100% Pure Cashmere Throw Blanket – $349]
- [Calvin Klein Women's Classic Cashmere Wool Blend Coat – $117.24]
- [Villand Australian Merino Wool Tartan Knitted Scarf – $32.99]
Not trying to be patriotic. Just trying to catch the fireworks without freezing.
Fourth of July week always hits different in hospitality. The inbox fills before I’ve finished my coffee, and everyone wants something. A last-minute suite. A vineyard tour at golden hour. Fireworks, but private. By midweek, I was managing chaos on three screens with a Bluetooth headset and a fading grip on patience.
So I cleared the decks early. Logged out before the last guest request landed. Told her I’d handle dinner if she handled the vibe. By 6:00 p.m. we were home. By 7:00 p.m. I had the grill going. By 8:00 p.m. she was already changed into the [Cashmere Boutique 100% Pure Cashmere Lounge Pajamas Set – $329]. Soft, fitted, and more put-together than any of the meetings I’d had all quarter.
I brought out the [Jet&Bo 100% Pure Cashmere Throw Blanket – $349]. She didn’t need it but appreciated the gesture. It caught the firelight just right as she moved toward the deck.
I stayed in my linen shirt, added the [Villand Australian Merino Wool Tartan Knitted Scarf – $32.99], looped it once, and called it eveningwear. Casual enough for grilled corn. Composed enough for grilled peaches.
She threw on the [Calvin Klein Women's Classic Cashmere Wool Blend Coat – $117.24] for that final breath of golden hour. She always says she doesn’t dress for anyone. I say she dresses like the moment might matter. It usually does.
Worn To:
Back patio in Yountville. A shared bottle of cab franc. Distant pops from Silverado Trail. She said it felt cinematic. She was right.
Small Philosophy:
You don’t need a flag to celebrate independence. Just warmth. And something that makes you feel more like yourself when the temperature drops.
Get the Look:
- [Cashmere Boutique 100% Pure Cashmere Lounge Pajamas Set – $329]
- [Jet&Bo 100% Pure Cashmere Throw Blanket – $349]
- [Calvin Klein Women's Classic Cashmere Wool Blend Coat – $117.24]
- [Villand Australian Merino Wool Tartan Knitted Scarf – $32.99]
Where It Works:
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A firepit at Stanly Ranch
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Solage Spa lawn after hours
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Press Napa, late seating
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Any night that ends with stars and red wine
Close:
This wasn’t about stars and stripes. It was about choosing softness, every single time.